He says there’s a “me, them and us” attitude at his place of work. He sees two sides, but feels separate from both.
Meanwhile…
He sits slightly apart from the little group in our workshop and politely declines an invitation to join the main body of participants, choosing instead to maintain an extra physical separation, not quite equivalent to everyone else.
He doesn’t seem to see the parallel between one experience and the other, even when it is gently pointed out.
I am staggered, frankly, at the strength of the illustration…
Our spatial disposition with other people tends to be a reflection of our relationship with them, and vice versa. Change one and you affect the other.
And our patterns in one context show up in another.
So…
What patterns are you repeating?
Who are you sat apart from?
And…
Who could you do with moving closer to?